Scheana Shay’s Journey: Unveiling Truths in Her Memoir, My Good Side

For over a decade, Scheana Shay has been a prominent figure on Vanderpump Rules, giving fans an intimate glimpse into her life, laden with drama, friendships, and romantic entanglements. However, beneath the sparkly facade, Scheana has faced her share of heartache and turmoil. In 2023, as the Scandoval scandal shook the reality TV world, she uncovered a painful secret: her husband, Brock Davies, had been unfaithful while she was pregnant with their daughter, Summer, two years earlier.

In her revealing memoir, My Good Side, Scheana provides readers with a candid look at her emotional rollercoaster, rooted in vulnerability and growth. “It really felt like I got my karma,” she reflects. Scheana recognizes the weight of public perception, especially given her past affair with Eddie Cibrian, who was married at the time. She emphasizes her accountability while asserting, “Did I deserve for Brock to cheat on me? No, but I told myself that I did.”

Healing Through Therapy

Navigating the complexities of infidelity and betrayal, Scheana turned to therapy—both as a couple and individually—to mend her heart and relationship. “I have a voice, and I want to use it,” she declares. Empowered and reflective, she acknowledges her evolution from a “21-year-old girl chasing boys around clubs” to a woman who is taking ownership of her narrative.

With the completion of Vanderpump Rules and a new cast on the horizon, Scheana uses her memoir to foster a deeper understanding of herself and her life choices. In an interview leading up to the book’s release, she reflects on her decision to stay with Brock, a choice that she admits has required unwavering effort, “It takes work every single day.”

Confronting Misconceptions

One of the most painful misconceptions Scheana has faced is the label of a “home-wrecker.” In her new song, "Miss Understood," she addresses these hurtful labels, asserting her loyalty and emphasizing that the perception often fails to capture her true character. “So many things are hurtful because they’re not true,” she shares.

Looking back at her previous relationship with Eddie, Scheana confronts the narrative that has haunted her for years, noting that she was misled by an older man during a formative time in her life. This ongoing struggle reflects how public personas often eclipse personal truths.

Betrayal and Forgiveness

Scheana’s revelation about Brock’s infidelity adds another layer to her narrative. The affair occurred during a tumultuous time in her life, and she expresses the shock of his confession. After grappling with feelings of betrayal, Scheana emphasizes that her daughter’s wellbeing influenced her decision to stay. “I’ve always said if I’m ever cheated on, I would leave,” she admits, challenging her previous convictions as she navigated this new reality.

Brock’s choice to come clean, she explains, stemmed from the fear of the truth emerging in a more damaging way. Understanding Brock’s fears led Scheana to empathize with his struggle to live up to expectations as a father. This new perspective underscores her growth and willingness to forgive, illustrating her commitment to their family.

Insights on Personal Growth

Scheana’s journey is not just about relationships; it’s also an exploration of self-discovery and healing. Her experiences with postpartum OCD further emphasize the depth of her struggles. Reflecting on her mental health journey, she notes, “It’s definitely gotten easier as she’s gotten older.”

The decision to include Brock’s affair in her memoir came after much deliberation. She felt it was essential for authenticity, as “this book would be inauthentic if we didn’t put it all in.” This introspective choice demonstrates her desire to control her narrative rather than letting others define her story.

Navigating Friendships and Relationships

Through her experiences on Vanderpump Rules, Scheana also navigated complex friendships, especially during moments of betrayal among cast members. Acknowledging her challenge in supporting Ariana Madix during Tom Sandoval’s betrayal, Scheana reflects on the balance between professional responsibilities and personal loyalty, expressing regret for not being the friend she wished to be.

As she writes about her connection to Summer, Scheana acknowledges the importance of teaching her daughter about respect in relationships, stemming from her own experiences.

Future Aspirations

While contemplating future family plans, Scheana is torn about the possibility of using a surrogate for a second child. She treasures the connection she formed during pregnancy, posing questions about the implications of using a surrogate. Simultaneously, she is open about mental health discussions with Brock and navigating the challenges of parenthood.

Scheana Shay’s journey is one steeped in resilience, love, and self-acceptance. Through her memoir, she continues to reclaim her identity and narrative, shedding light on the realities behind the glitzy world of reality television, ultimately seeking to be more understood.